Have you ever noticed how some people set impossible standards for you—standards they don’t even hold themselves to? They raise the bar, then casually walk right under it, leaving you exhausted trying to meet expectations they were never willing to carry themselves. In They Raise the Bar—Then Walk Under It, Aimee Egesa unpacks the emotional toll of double standards, misplaced expectations, and constantly proving yourself. More importantly, she challenges women to stop reactin